Psychologist on a difficult question: should we tell children the truth about Santa Claus

November 18 marks the birthday of Ded Moroz (Father Frost). It is believed that on this day in his native Velikiy Ustyug, the first real cold weather usually arrives.

As reported by TUT.AZ, psychologist Kira Goldstein, in a conversation with "Gazeta.Ru," addressed an important question that concerns many parents: whether to reveal the truth about the existence of Ded Moroz to children.

According to the specialist, most psychologists unanimously agree: the anticipation of a miracle is not just a childish amusement but a powerful psychological mechanism that helps a child successfully cope with anxieties and gain a sense of stability in a world that is still incomprehensible and sometimes frightening.

"A child can believe in Ded Moroz for as long as they need to. Some stop believing at 6-7 years old, others at 10-11 or even later. This is not immaturity but a natural stage of development. Fantasies help overcome difficulties and give a feeling that everything will be fine," emphasized the expert.

She noted that this "little lie" not only does not harm a child's psyche but also plays a key role in developing imagination and emotional resilience.

"When parents support the idea of Ded Moroz's existence, they invite the child into a space of fantasy where good triumphs and dreams come true. This is not deception but collaborative creativity, a game through which adults help the child maintain faith in goodness," explained Goldstein.

Over time, doubts inevitably arise in a child, and this is an absolutely normal part of growing up. At this turning point, it's important not to persist in creating an illusion but to offer a calm and gentle explanation.

"It's important to say: 'Yes, you've grown up and now understand how everything works. But the miracle doesn't disappear - we create it ourselves. Now you too can become Ded Moroz and bring joy to younger ones.' This approach helps make the transition from childhood to a more adult role smooth and pleasant, enhancing the sense of significance and kindness," noted the psychologist.

According to her, kindness and belief in magic do not disappear with age - they just transform. Previously, the child eagerly awaited a gift under the tree, but as they grow up, they experience joy from the ability to bring happiness to others. Belief in miracles is not about a beard and staff, but about the ability to see goodness around and maintain hope for the best, concluded the expert.